Friday, June 9, 2023

NORMAL

 

NORMAL

“Normal is getting dressed in clothes that you buy for

work and driving through traffic in a car that you are

still paying for in order to get to the job you need to

pay for the clothes and the car and the house that you

leave vacant all day so you can afford to live in it.”

                                                                Ellen Goodman

I am not defined by what you think I am. I will not fall into your predetermined

plan. March to the beat of your own drum. Think freely. Avoid

becoming a uniform part in a uniform system where you are replaceable

by the person standing next to you. Just because everyone else

does it that way or someone else tells you that is the way to do it

does not mean that is the way for you. Maybe it is, maybe it is not.

Be yourself. Do it because you want to do it. Do it because it interests

you. Do it because it lights your spark. Think for yourself. There is no

need to copy other people just because. Be original. You are unique.

Be unique. Learn from others, especially from the mistakes of others,

but do for yourself. Help others. Live life on your own terms and avoid

letting other people dictate how you live your life.

Sometimes we need to forget the box life is trying to put us in.

Forget what the world thinks of you stepping out of your “predetermined”

place. Think your best thoughts. Speak your best words. Work

your best work. Be the best version of yourself. Do your best deeds.

Look to your own conscience for what you know is right or wrong. We

all too often accept without hesitation or questioning what to think,

believe or accept because this was imprinted on us by others. This

can be both good and bad. Not good if we simply choose to accept

what others frame for us. Dare to think for yourself. Create your own

thoughts. Create your own life. You decide. You choose. You be. You

are. You paint your own life. You create life. What story are you going to

create? This is your masterpiece. The story you paint for yourself has

ripple effects on others. The best way to help yourself? Help others.

Make yourself better by helping make our world a better place, one

step at a time, one action at a time, one person at a time. There is

no place for hate, vitriol, or animosity. It just steals energy and focus,

and we only have so much energy and focus to go around. So, use

that energy wisely, work hard, sleep well to gain, and preserve more

energy and put that energy to good use for you and the world.

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